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More recently, about fifty years ago, Slavic men in Europe were considered the standard of beauty. "Tall, courageous, with light brown hair and blue eyes, ah!" - sighed foreign women (especially residents of southern countries). Now, if you ask a European woman if she would agree to have sex with a Russian man, she giggles and shrugs: "Probably not." Recently, the image of the hero of the Russian land has overgrown with such myths that only the most daring will decide to go to bed with a Russian man, not to mention marry him ...
Myths of the new Europe:
Myth 1. "Russian men always wear white socks under black boots."
This is considered in Europe the height of bad taste and symbolizes the complete inability of men, not only to be able to dress stylishly, but to know how to dress elementary ...
Myth 2. "They always smell bad." If you are "lucky" ("lucky") - only then. And if not, also garlic with fumes ...
Myth 3. "Russian man is rude." Europeans believe that Russian men love "hard" sex. Or even cruel. They like to rudely rip off their partner's clothes, rip her pantyhose, and slap the woman hard on the buttocks. “That is why Russian girls are sadists,” Europeans believe, “they want a man to“ take ”them rudely, whisper vulgarities in his ear and bite their necks until they bruise!”
Myth 4. "A Russian man beats a woman." A myth arising from myth No. 3 and regular negative stories on European TV about Russian reality. “Domestic violence is pretty common in Russia. And the Russians also have a saying: if he hits, then he loves! Horrible!"
Myth 5. "Men in Russia drink vodka non-stop, and fight for fun." This myth is also formed by television, where the following stories are regularly shown: "Russia is drinking too much", "Russian men are dying out", "The violent life of Russian everyday life" ...
Myth 6. “Russian men are very selfish, arrogant and like to show off. For example, they only smoke “Parliament” (albeit sometimes bought with the last money), thinking that it’s cool, although in fact “Parliament” in Europe is not at all a prestigious brand of cigarettes ”.
Myth 7. "Slavic men do not take care of themselves." They don't care what they come to work in, shave or not shave. Many of them dress very cheaply.
Russian man is a big child
What can I say here? Yes, it is not easy for a Russian person now, and they strive to offend and offend ... But don’t worry, dear men, there are still foreign women who risked tying their fate with a Slav. After all, having got to know a Russian better, it becomes clear that he is not at all such an egoist, does not wear white socks under black shoes, does not drink around the clock, and is not at all formidable, but even tame.
“My Russian husband,” said one American woman, “is a big child. I know that behind the threshold of the house he is hooligan with friends, but at home he is a real affectionate cat. I like that a Russian man takes care of all the paperwork, real estate, our financial side of life and other little things. My husband is very strong internally and there is always something to talk about with him! He is very gentle and attentive! "
“The Russian man is not greedy! - boasts a Swede who has been married to a Russian. - He likes to impress! And he is also a wonderful lover and father ... ".
The breadth of the Russian soul
Well, that a Russian man is not greedy is a popular truth. Although the fact that at European resorts the Slavs throw out handfuls of money does not at all amaze a foreign woman, but alarming. Why throw away such a huge amount of money when you can get by with completely lower costs? That is why foreign women are afraid to take Russians as husbands: they will squander the family's savings. But the young ladies of warmer countries (Italy, Spain, Greece) and the USA, on the contrary, respect the breadth of the Russian soul and agree with pleasure to become the spouses of Russian "lapus".
For example, the Spaniard Consuelo Segure has been happily married to RTR TV presenter Vladimir Molchanov for many years. The famous Ukrainian footballer, the Italian Milan player Andriy Shevchenko is married to the American model Kristen Pazik. Rumor has it that the Russian tennis player Marat Safin, completely disappointed with Russian women, has his eyes on the American, and not just any, but the current girlfriend of Justin Timberlake Jessica Bill. The tennis court star made a date for the beauty, which she did not refuse!
Russians "pretend" to be a mafia
Well, in general, how many people - so many opinions. Everywhere there are "copies": both among Russian men and among foreigners. And Europeans sometimes drink more than Russians, and mock their wives with devilish ingenuity. Only such incidents are silenced by the press or simply denied. As for Russian men abroad, alas, only a small percentage of them show themselves to be the best. “They always pretend to be a mafia, although they themselves steal from supermarkets,” the foreign women grin. “If Russian men were good, their women would not run abroad ...”.
But maybe, given the demographic situation in Russia, you shouldn't judge men harshly. When there are three girls for one young man, it is she, and not him, nature dictates to fight for the best male and look like a million dollars every day, but a man can relax, because he can easily find himself a new passion. Therefore, perhaps, the outflow of women abroad is not so bad, because it will lead to a balance of power in the male and female "camps" in Russia ...
In conclusion, I would like to say that, alas, the awareness of foreigners about Russian reality is very, very primitive, hence the absurd myths about Russian men and women. Many of Europeans have seen Russians only from TV screens, how can they know that our men will give odds to any European in strength, courage, and wit. And in flights of fantasy, the Russian person has no equal! Would a foreigner stick his head into a scanner to print out the unique shape of his auricle? No, the main advantage of a Russian man is that he is never bored with him!
IN THE END I WOULD LIKE TO LEAD STATEMENTS BY REPRESENTATIVES OF DIFFERENT COUNTRIES ABOUT RUSSIAN MEN (original from the site: http://blog.i.ua/user/1002484/133144/) ...
From an essay by a Chinese student:
- "Russian peasants are positive. They do not immediately catch the eye, but then I understand: a good person, kind. They have interesting brains and a warm soul."
The Japanese woman writes:
"I like Russian men. They are not greedy, I read a lot, loves to celebrate. Tough character. The German is taller, the American body is fatter, richer, but the Russian soul is cooler."
American:
"The Russian man is a good man. He is not only interested in money, he has an interesting spiritual world" ...
Korean:
"The external data of Russian men are not always attractive. New clothes, they do not always shave the bottom of the face, do not brush their hair, do not always wash their shoes. But if you do not pay attention to this circumstance, you can see the internal attractive qualities of Russian men. They are kind, generous, cheerful , not boring, real friends, and always give help when there is a problem "
But the Spanish woman:
"The Spanish muschin has a hot body and a cold soul, the Russian muschin basically has everything hot, above all the inner world."
Greek:
"Despite drinking vodka and not being friends with the bath, the Russian male mentality has a lot of positives."
And here is what Naomi Campbell says about her Russian fiancé Vladislav Doronin: “He is a wonderful person, special. I thank God for this meeting. a man. He is really beautiful. He is a Man. And he is a gentleman. He looks at me and sees not a supermodel, but me "...
Russian tourists are welcome in many countries, but there are places where Russians are especially loved. From Serbia, where Russians are called brothers, to India, where thousands of Russians leave every year.
Serbia
Relations between Russia and Serbia have a long history, during which they have been tested for strength more than once. Although sometimes it was not so smooth. However, during periods of major upheavals - the expansion of the Ottoman Empire, the First and Second World Wars, the Yugoslav crisis of the 1990s - Russia always came to the aid of the small Balkan country, or at least expressed all-round support for it.
Public opinion polls conducted in Serbia in 2010 showed that Serbs have a much better attitude towards Russians than towards their European neighbors, despite the fact that there is a certain negativism among the Serbian elite, mostly associated with overestimated expectations of support from sides of Russia.
There are now about 2,500 Russians living in Serbia; some Serbian universities have a department of the Russian language.
Since 2009, a visa-free regime has been in place between Russia and Serbia; several tens of thousands of Russians come to the Balkan country every year. However, the attitude of Serbs towards Russians is best characterized by a poster in the center of Novi Sad, which reads in Russian: "Thank you Russia!"
Greece
The connection between Greece and Russia has always been close, since it was based on similar spiritual and cultural values. The desire to preserve traditions is evidenced by the numerous visits of Russian leaders to Greece.
In particular, Foreign Minister Sergei Lavrov took part in events dedicated to the 185th anniversary of the proclamation of the independence of Greece, after its liberation from the Ottoman yoke. This is a memorable event in which Russia also played a role.
Russians in Greece are loved and always welcome. Greece has recently become one of the priority holiday destinations for Russian tourists, which was largely facilitated by the simplification of the visa regime between the two countries.
Statistics show that over the past three years, the flow of Russian tourists to Hellas has more than tripled.
In 2013, the number of tourists from Russia amounted to 1 million 352 thousand people. A Russian tourist spends on average about 1,000 euros in Greece, while tourists from other countries usually leave no more than 700 euros here.
The Greek Ambassador to the Russian Federation Danae-Magdalini Kumanaku, when asked about stereotypes concerning Russians, answered that “there is a positive attitude towards Russia in Greece”. Repatriates from the USSR, who are well integrated into Greek society, act as a kind of bridge in the relationship between Greeks and Russians.
India
After the collapse of the USSR, Russia inherited close friendly and partnership relations with India. Many Russians willingly move to this Asian country, where they live very comfortably.
The warm attitude of Indians towards Russians is largely due to the comprehensive assistance that the Soviet Union provided to India. Russian entrepreneur Anna Tikhaya-Tishchenko notes that "it is surprisingly pleasant for Russians to be in India", also due to the similarity of the mentality of the two peoples.
Cuba
Cuba has not yet forgotten the enormous financial, economic, military and political support that the Soviet Union rendered to it. Even when Russia, starting in the early 1990s, stopped providing assistance to the Island of Liberty and embarked on the path of normalizing relations with the United States, the Cubans essentially did not change their attitude towards the Russians.
Note that quite recently, despite the difficult economic situation in the country, the Cuban authorities decided to allocate money for the construction of an Orthodox church in Havana. Cubans continue to carefully look after the Memorial dedicated to Soviet soldiers-internationalists.
Russian tourists are always welcome guests in Cuban resorts.
This is not to say that they are loved there more than others, but they are always welcomed. Especially warm relations, according to vacationers from Russia, in the Cuban province, which is not so ruined by money.
Nicaragua
During the Soviet era, Nicaragua was the second most important strategic partner of our state after Cuba among the countries of Latin America. Large financial injections into the Nicaraguan economy have provided significant support to the developing state. Russia also forgave almost all the debt to the Latin American country - the total amount of amnestied funds amounted to almost $ 6 billion.
Nicaraguans never forget about the gratuitous assistance that our country has provided and continues to provide.
To this, the country's leadership, represented by President Daniel Ortega, responds to Russia with unconditional support in the international political arena. Thus, Nicaragua became the first country after Russia to recognize the independence of Abkhazia and South Ossetia.
Confirmation of the strong traditions of friendship between the two countries can be seen on the streets of Managua. "Russia - Nicaragua" - such an inscription adorns the buses running around the capital.
Venezuela
Russian-Venezuelan relations received a good stimulus for their development back in 1857, when the Russian Empire recognized the independence of the Republic of Venezuela. In 2008, after the visit of President Dmitry Medvedev to Venezuela, there was a new leap in relations between the two countries, followed by the Agreement on the Waiver of Visa Formalities between Moscow and Caracas.
There are few Russians in Venezuela. These are mainly tourists. Often, as noted by Russian guests, if the interlocutor likes the Venezuelan, he will show the way, give the necessary information, and possibly feed.
The best gratitude for the hospitable host will be a small souvenir in the form of a T-shirt or a cap with the inscription "Russia".
President of the Caribbean Dream Group Mikhail Kranchev, who lives on Margarita Island, confirms the good attitude of Venezuelans towards Russians. Kranchev notes that even during the presidency of Hugo Chavez, Venezuelans liked to repeat that "our presidents are friends."
Syria
Russia has a long and strong relationship with Syria. Since the founding of the Syrian Arab Republic, the Soviet Union has provided diplomatic and military support to it in its confrontation with Israel.
In 1971, the material and technical unit of the USSR Navy was founded in the Mediterranean port of Tartus. Soviet firearms, cars, tanks, planes, and missiles were supplied to Syria.
Thus, Syria became the most loyal state to the Soviet Union in the Middle East.
Syria did not have the opportunity to pay off the Soviet Union for the supplied weapons, so by 1992 its debt to Russia exceeded $ 13.4 billion.
Part of the Syrian debt - $ 9.8 billion out of $ 13.4 billion - was written off in 2005. To pay off the remaining amount, a number of agreements were signed between Moscow and Damascus in the field of construction, oil and gas. Syria has also pledged to purchase Russian weapons and modernize armored vehicles supplied during Soviet times.
Turkey
Russian tourists are loved in Turkey. Perhaps this is historical memory. Despite the fact that Russia often fought with the Ottoman Empire, after the revolution, relations between Soviet Russia and the Turkish Republic changed. The USSR helped Turkey very much in its formation. Supplied food, weapons.
The Soviet government helped Ankara build two gunpowder factories, supplying equipment and raw materials for them.
Frunze allocated 100 thousand rubles to the Trabzon authorities to organize an orphanage, and Aralov donated 20 thousand lire to the Turkish army for the purchase of camping printing houses and cinema installations.
The Lausanne International Conference on Turkey, held from November 1922 to July 1923, led to the proclamation of Turkey as an independent state, with Mustafa Ataturk as president. All foreign troops were withdrawn from the country.
During the conference, the Entente left behind the straits of Turkey. When the "Montreux Convention" was signed in 1936, where the USSR was already a full-fledged participant, and Turkey was a very strong state, the Turks returned sovereignty over the Straits.
A French man is such a recognizable brand in and of itself that, in my opinion, he shouldn't even bother to charm a visiting foreigner. It is enough to adjust the muffler and purr, grazing, something seductive, and now the tourist is ready for anything. It is more difficult with compatriots: their reputation is no worse, and a casually tied scarf is also always at the ready.
In fact, to admit, it was a discovery for me - the French are not particularly romantic. Their main advantage lies precisely in the business approach to everything, including relationships.
When Puritan Americans were still chasing their first turkey, the French were honing the art of nano-romance. Considering that they started back in the "gallant age", they had plenty of time for self-improvement.
If I am lucky enough to meet a nice Frenchman with whom it is pleasant to spend the night, I can be sure that he will make sure that this very night is unforgettable. But at the same time he himself runs to the pharmacy for condoms, if they are suddenly not at hand.
According to representatives of this practical nation, skillfully pretending to be a nation of romantics, the main sign of a successful love adventure is wonderful memories and no consequences. Agree.
2. Russia
It is always the hardest thing to evaluate your own, dear one: there are so many advantages, so many disadvantages, and everything is so close to your heart! Therefore, in Russian men, I decided to note, perhaps not the most important, but my favorite quality - a sense of humor.
The ability to tell funny jokes and screw a funny quote into place is especially appreciated by talking with those who are absolutely devoid of this skill.
It’s not easy for men in Russia: now one crisis will break out, then another, and the expectations of society and women are growing and growing. All that remains is to have fun and make fun of - over oneself, over the country, politics, over the climate, and sometimes, very rarely and very carefully - over the woman he loves.
There is, however, such a critical opinion that the jokes of Russian men do not shine with originality - they say, as they laughed at bad roads ten years ago, they still laugh. But I see in this only a manifestation of another dignity characteristic of my compatriots - constancy.
3. United Kingdom
No one likes pedants and nerds, but men with bad manners who cannot be relied on are not particularly attractive either. The British represent the golden mean - they will not bite about every little thing, but at the same time they are reliable and well-mannered.
You can rely on a British man in any situation, whether it is choosing a lawn mower or going to a wedding of friends together. And at the same time, he will never reproach with a too revealing outfit. Behind a decent native of foggy Albion, you feel like Behind Adrian's Wall.
4. Sweden
Swedish men look like real Scandinavian gods: tall, handsome and blonde. In principle, I would have finished on this. I don't even know what other advantages you need.
It also warms my soul that the eternal obstacle to my personal happiness, the language barrier, in this particular case was removed many years ago by the efforts of local authorities. Foreign films on TV are shown exclusively in the original (albeit with subtitles), so all Swedish men speak excellent English. Communicate with them is a pleasure.
Yet Sweden's main charm is that it is a country that won gender equality at the state level. And this means that from a potentially interested in me god-like Swede, you can not hide dizzying career achievements or other successes. For example, a rich travel history - for fears that he would feel threatened by his masculinity and back up.
You can safely say everything as it is (read - brag): local men appreciate strong women.
5. Armenia
Like many other ancient civilizations, this one pays great attention to ensuring that the cultural heritage created over the centuries has someone to pass on. Therefore, family and children are sacred for an Armenian man.
The Armenians themselves are slightly shy about their own seriousness in this matter and secretly suspect that in a world where relationships can start (or not start) depending on which direction you stroked the phone screen (I'm talking about Tinder), it's time to slightly update the national approach to romance.
But so far this has not happened, and Armenian men remain the same who they have been for centuries - wonderful family men. As a child from a happy, complete family and a girl of marriageable age, I find it incredibly charming.
And Armenians also respect their elders, especially their mother, so you need to be ready to please her. On the other hand, if I have a family with an Armenian man, then the future daughter-in-law will have to please me! This makes me happy.
6.Italy
The main competitive advantage of Italian men is the climate in which they live. In a country whose nature is beautiful and generous, it does not take much effort to look at the world with sincere complacency. This is probably why Italians are so sensitive to everything beautiful and so willingly express their admiration for them. And the most beautiful thing is women.
In practical terms, this means that an Italian man compliments a girl simply because she met her, even if for this he had to take a small detour. Even if the girl is unfamiliar. Even if the girl does not speak Italian. Even if she is lying on the grass, buried in a book (seriously, she barely drove that Romeo off the rug).
Of course, the likelihood that he will directly chase you down the street to inform you that you can drown in your eyes is not so great and depends not so much on the depth of your eyes as on the temperature outside - who is running at plus forty? But let go of the approving "Bella!" any Italian from 15 to 95 considers it his duty to address a girl passing by.
It’s very hard to get out of this afterwards - you’re walking in a new dress in the center of the city in any other country, and at least someone would notice ...
Z and I visited the border almost a month ago, but some indelible impressions have not been erased from my memory, so I have to write them down. What shocks me most is not the facts themselves and the types described, but the fact that in Russia it did not strike me at all. It seems to us to be the perfect norm.
WOMEN
Our women are almost always irrelevant. For an all-inclusive dinner, where people sit in jeans and T-shirts, they come as if they were at an Oscar. Evening dress, stiletto heels, clutch bag and combat makeup. Once one of these floated into the restaurant, so the British, next to the table, after the first chuckles, directly said: "Russian check-in."
When I lived in Egypt, I constantly noted that our women looked especially wild. To hell with him, with the evening image. But I was always surprised by the hordes of girls who, in a Muslim country, go out into the city in the evening, wearing "shorts" that practically do not cover their butts, and translucent tops. And then they cackle indignantly: Arabs are pesky savages! About heels and wedges on the beach - I generally will kindly keep silent. Looking at our girls abroad, one always thinks: how much they want to get married, since they dress like that!
MEN ARE NO BETTER
My most dearly disliked type is the "let's have fun" guy. Woe to you if he recognizes a compatriot in you - he will hunt you down ten times a day, sympathetically ask why you are so sad, generously share your fumes and invite you to ride a banana. Once I was hiding from the company of such uncles for a whole week, quite talentedly imitating a prim British woman. And two days before leaving, I got pierced - I was peacefully reading a book to myself, and suddenly my ear rumbled: "And I knew that you were Nashinskaya!" I forgot to wrap the cover of the book with something.
A family man leaving is, in my opinion, no less terrible type. If a girl on high heels somehow turns pale and merges with the crowd of mere mortals in sandals and appropriate clothes, then he is the other way around - only now he is showing himself in all his glory. And no white grand piano with "our song" from the Bi2 repertoire, and even the sacramental sounding background "Dad, I pooped!" Staggering and leaning on his washed-out-looking wife, he stands at passport control naked to the waist, drunk in the smoke and terribly proud that he managed to deftly refill his empty bottles from the minibar with water and pay nothing for them.
The desire to deceive someone, in general, our national trait, it seems.
However, there are many warm and friendly places in the world where all these types do not get.
For example, Cyprus, from which I recently returned. I set a difficult task for the travel agency: so that there was something to do, except "wallow under an umbrella", so that there were a minimum of Russians, but at the same time - cheap. In the end, I was greeted by beautiful Larnaca, windsurfing 500 meters from the hotel and pink flamingos on a salt lake a quarter of an hour walk along the beach. And also silence, a spacious room, a private jacuzzi and the absence of comic characters in the hotel. Now you can go
Sh ri-Lanka - more expensive, of course, from 67,100 rubles, but far from the possible habitats of drunk men and girls for rent, cut on the surf, overeat fruit and enjoy life. The most interesting thing when exploring such options is. For example, if you depart on Thursday, the price can be much lower. What is the most expensive option? And the cheapest one? And if not 8 days, but 9, and departure a day earlier?
E this is just an example. Actually, a very convenient search, a sensible rating of hotels, detailed descriptions of resorts and, in general, all the possibilities to plan a vacation "according to the mind" and not be disappointed in anything on the spot!
cover photo from the series Kurortny romance
Russian brides were popular in the world at all times: they became queens, duchesses, wives of great musicians, artists, and writers. And Russian suitors were also held in high esteem, especially recently they began to be appreciated. But not all of them. Romain Rolland, having married Maria Kudasheva, wrote that Russian women are the best wives. Do modern foreigners agree with him?
Brides for export: are there many foreigners taking away modern Russian women, and why are they better than local virgins?
The boom in popularity of Russian brides began in the early 1990s, when the borders opened, the global modeling business came to the country, and foreign tourists traveled in droves. It turned out that our girls are universally good-looking, naive, tender - and in addition, in a strange way, they know how to cook perfectly, they love home comfort. This is at a time when Western ladies massively plunged into the struggle for their rights and mired in feminism: flowers are not necessary, compliments are insulting, courtship is a waste of time. Savvy foreigners returned from new Russia with impressions and life companions. Local businesses caught the demand, and marriage bureaus proliferated throughout the country. Not all girls found their happiness: without knowing the language and laws in a foreign land, they found themselves in difficult situations. But in their homeland, princes with living space and a gentle heart are not so common, therefore, even after an unsuccessful marriage, girls do not rush to their homeland. Despite the numerous risks and differences in mentality, far fewer marriages with foreigners break up than with compatriots. 80% of families are strong enough and last for many years. Over the past decade, every fifth bride from Russia has married a foreigner. True, these figures also include the CIS countries. According to the Moscow registry offices, most often they leave for Germany, Great Britain, Turkey. And in the capital in 2016, 25 Chinese officially married Muscovites. What attracts foreigners to Russian wives, and to which countries they are taken most willingly
Our women do not have pronounced feminist views, they are more delicate in communication than foreign women. They value family and home, they are economic and love to cook. "The way to a man's heart is through his stomach" - means that the stronger sex appreciates the comfort of home. And Russian women remember this and willingly demonstrate their economic skills. Russian women are good-looking, take care of their appearance and clothes. And if a short skirt, impeccable proportions and stiletto heels for Russian men are often the subject of stinging remarks, foreigners sincerely admire this. Many Western women treat themselves quite casually, do not refuse food for the sake of a figure. Even French women rely on the proverbial charm without bothering to maintain it. The Russian woman is programmed to please her husband's eyes. She is well-groomed and combed from the very morning, carefully dressed for shopping. She uses cosmetics and smart clothes for walks and meetings with friends, while even French women and Italians wear spectacular dresses exclusively for receptions. The Russian wife hires a servant only in extreme cases, keeping her house from the presence of a stranger. Coziness and warmth are not only good furniture and a comfortable spacious apartment: the design is thought out carefully - with taste and love. And Russian women are also romantic, admire the flowers donated, and enjoy compliments. Expectations of expensive gifts are generally atypical for them. And they are not afraid of the winter bad weather. When a blizzard is raging outside the window, it is so pleasant to drink tea with homemade cookies and look at the beautiful hostess of the house, dressed in a bright home dress. And how not to fall in love with one if she is always a holiday! Restrained Norwegians and Swedes prefer foreign wives, because their compatriots do not burden themselves with household chores. The beauty of the bride is pleasing to them, but not paramount. Practical Germans love order in the house, but they often fall in love with beautiful Slavic women. Italians fall for our women of any age, especially those who have been married to mercantile compatriots. In their opinion, only Russians are capable of having a heart-to-heart talk and showing tenderness. And our ladies consider the Spaniards and the British to be the best European husbands. However, many alliances are also concluded with citizens from the former socialist camp, sometimes not the most well-to-do. Russian women also marry Muslims and Indians. And, accepting local customs and rules, more often than not they are quite happy. Divorces with children are a problem for Russian men, and for foreigners - confirmation of the ability to raise and educate children
For Western men, children - their own, wives' and joint ones - are a vital value. So a mother of three children can find her soul mate abroad. It is almost impossible for her to get married in Russia. In many countries, family values are honored, and many children are born in strong families. The fact that a woman has a child is considered a confirmation of her serious attitude towards a future marriage and the absence of adventurism. And a man may not have children due to some kind of illness, but he wants to be adopted. For such a homely, affectionate woman with children is just a gift. The willingness to raise the children of his chosen one also depends on the ability to support a family. It is not customary to marry without sufficient income and housing conditions in most countries. So a handsome young groom with big money is unscientific fantasy. From China to Russia for a wife - a new wave of marriages with foreigners
The Chinese are considered good, reliable husbands, and Russian girls increasingly choose them to create a family. You can have more than one child with a foreigner: in China, mixed families do not have a limit on the number of children. A Russian wife for a Chinese is a real gift: only she can come home from work and put the pies in the oven. Local ladies are spoiled for attention, because there are 40 million fewer of them in the country than men. In China, they are very fond of European appearance and blonde hair, but brown-eyed brown-haired women do not go unnoticed. Grooms are very often tall, athletic build. And, of course, the well-to-do, to go on a long trip for his wife and pay for the services of an intermediary is too expensive for the poor. True, English is not common in China - you will have to learn Chinese. Russian girls are increasingly receiving education at Chinese universities and can get a job with such a diploma. There is also a lot of work for English teachers - prestigious and well paid. You can slowly take a closer look at the suitors. Men from Russia are now also popular with foreign women. True, not all
While girls are looking for husbands in distant countries, overseas ladies find many attractive features in their compatriots. And willingly marry them. True, there are such couples more often in the motherland of the bride, where the future husband came to work. Norwegians like gallant courtship, the willingness to always give a hand, or even move on hands through a puddle. Their compatriots do not act that way: why, they already know about full gender equality. And the Russian husband is always ready to talk about what worries his wife. And the main people for him are his wife and child. The salary is also quite nothing for itself, because a bad specialist from abroad is not hired to work. Temperamental Cubans consider Russians to be delicate and courteous, in addition, they do not seek to command, which is very pleasant in family relations. Russians are sentimental and dreamy, which is so attractive! Proud Polish women cannot resist luxurious bouquets and endless conversations about everything, French women love compliments, champagne evenings and long night walks. And Western girls often conquer Russian gentlemen with their naturalness, lack of passion for things.